Match of My Dreams

Self Love

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I quit smoking!

I quit smoking! I quit smoking! My client, Ken, age 55.. Came to me 3 months ago.. Wanting to find new love.. As we evaluated his past relationships- Women left him.. Couldn’t stand his habit- Of heavy smoking.. They couldn’t stand that- He smelled like a chimney… They were either allergic or got headaches- From […]

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Why haven’t they called?

Why haven’t they called? Why haven’t they called? Why haven’t they called? This has been the most common question.. When one wonders why the other hasn’t contacted.. Since the breakup~ Or their last initiation to reconcile- My clients would ask me… Why haven’t they contacted? My answer as a coach~ Has always been.. “Focus on

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Leaving a narcissist..

Leaving a narcissist.. Leaving a narcissist.. Below is a testimonial from my client, Adrianna. ~~~ A few months ago, I went through a really tough breakup. With Kolline’s help I was able to see my past relationship with a new perspective. I opened my eyes and realized that I was dating a narcissist. As I

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It’s ALL my fault!

It’s ALL my fault! It’s ALL my fault! My client, 44, had the narrative that.. When things happen- Not to his liking.. That he has this narrative.. To say.. That.. “Its ALL my fault!” One day I realized this pattern.. After things didn’t go- As he wished.. With this woman he had been dating.. He

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I fell in love..

I fell in love.. I fell in love.. With him.. I didn’t believe he existed- Before we met. A love like a fairytale~ A love that’s unconditional. He is so special to me. Even though- He may not always be- With me physically. At all times. But.. I can feel him. I can feel his

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Look what you’ve done!

Look what you’ve done! Look what you’ve done! My handyman.. Of four years.. Was here to fix my garbage disposal- That was not working At my sink.. He hardly comes inside of my house.. Or perhaps he hasn’t Since Covid.. I left him downstairs in the kitchen.. I was upstairs working.. I trusted that he

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She hurt me!

She hurt me! She hurt me! I have been there.. In his shoes.. My client, Mark, age 48 Recently.. In one of the exercises- We did.. Started to remember.. All the details.. Of the most traumatic event.. Of his life.. “She hurt me,” he cried. “How did she hurt you?” I asked.. Seeking to understand..

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I am devastated!

I am devastated! I am devastated! Backtrack 4 years ago.. I received an email. From the- “Runaway husband support group”- Since my ex.. Was a diagnosed narcissist.. In the midst of chaos.. Of the turmoil of my divorce.. I didn’t remember when I signed up… To support others.. Anyways.. “Someone.. please help me.” A lady

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