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Catch me if you can, I meant literally. What do you think would happen when you chase a butterfly or a puppy? Think about it. The more you chase, the more it will elude you! How does this concept apply in love? Men oftentimes believe that they need to chase women. The more they chase, […]

Your external world is a mirror and the reflection of your inner world. What does this mean? It means your inner beliefs have manifested the reality of your current life. In order to change your external reality, you ought to change your mindset and current beliefs. Clients usually say to me- “Kolline, I will always

Your dating profile is your “resume” in dating. Majority of the men make no effort in making it presentable. Why? I don’t know. How do I know? Because I am also looking for my “purpose mate” (soul mate) as I was divorced a year ago. This is not only my profession. This is also part

Recently, so many people around me have been going through heartbreaks! Everyone’s asking me- “Please tell me how to get her back!” I answered: “Why do you want her back?” He said: “Please, I am going crazy she might be dating someone else!” I asked: “What happened?” After I heard his story- I said: “Focus

The longest I ever dated a specific man lasted 37 days. It was 37 days of romance. It ended abruptly. From my perception- He walked away from me while I was still talking. As if.. Perhaps.. He was done listening to me. To me- It’s rude for anyone to walk away from someone while the

What do you want in your most intimate romantic relationship? How do you want to feel? It applies to all of us- Doesn’t it? Everyone is longing for love. It’s one of the basic human needs stated from psychologist Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs “Love and Belonging” that is. Whether or not your relationship status is

The common mistake men make in dating is that… They forget that they are the star of their own movie. Instead of qualifying women, they oftentimes put their focus on whether a woman likes them or not. In panic mode- On dates With sweaty palms And desperate energy The question shouldn’t be- “Does she want

What is my mission in life? My mission in life is to create a compound effect to spread more love into the world. Honestly, this is my soul’s purpose and my goal is to be known as the BEST love coach for men in USA, then globally! What’s in my vision? My vision is to

When I was 5 years old or younger, I don’t remember exactly when. Somehow I got involved in an innocent game, that was hosted by a neighborhood teenage girl, who appeared to be 13 or 14. An innocent game that turned somewhat more than PG13. I was in a room with other children of my

The wife always knows…… 3 years ago, I suspected something about my ex, I couldn’t pinpoint what… Something was off. He started sleeping on the downstairs sofa claiming that he had to work late that he didn’t want to disturb my sleep… ok. But something was still off…. Around the same time, I decided to