Yes! No more tears! How did I survive a narcissistic relationship? It took one decision of CHOOSING myself first. I meant it was for my survival. I had to make that decision or I would’ve ended my life and left my girls irresponsibly. It took so much of my inner strength to bypass the bread-crumbing, […]
I am… I am falling…. “I am falling in love with you……….” I felt his heart when I heard him say these words to me. Oh no! I wish he didn’t tell me. Because there is no turning back after I heard it. Isn’t it too fast? At the end of our second date- I
Yes! “When shall we marry?” A man said to me after a few initial text exchanges. “Wow!” I was thinking he’s love bombing me jokingly. “Hmmm…” I was intrigued to see how this would unfold. He’s very intelligent, successful with deep rooted purpose of helping people elevate their lives. I am a free spirited person
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I disappeared.. A few people DMed me last week and asked- “Kolline, why did you disappear?” “Are you okay?” Yes! Yes! I am physically okay. But- I am intuitively not okay. I felt lost! I was lost! I lost my creative intuition. What happened to me? Why are you sad? “Let’s backtrack this, Kolline!” as
What is your safe word? Women need to feel safe. Let me repeat- Women need to feel safe in order to build trust. Men are not always aware of this at all times. I see everything I encounter in my own dating life as Universe’s way to inspire me to address these issues. To the
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Tell me……… The worst question you can ever ask a woman that you just started messaging online- Is.. Tell me…. Tell me about yourself! Seriously.. What a vague question. Where should we start? Hmmmm… Isn’t it more like a job interview question? She has already talked about herself in her profile. If you have read
One month ago I received a call, the client came from my YouTube channel. He scheduled the call then he postponed for another two weeks. I saw his hesitation reflecting in my email inbox. Tom, a 55 year old man who lost his lifetime partner in 2020. Tom:“I love your videos but I hesitated in
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My mom was a high school math teacher in Taiwan. She was very strict. I am the 3rd daughter of the family. I have two older sisters before me then a younger brother who passed away due to accident. My mom is a very traditional Chinese woman. She met my dad in junior high school
I am the one! Yes! When you go on dates…. The most common mistake men make is that they go out of their way to impress a woman. The goal is not for the woman to like you….. If so… You would be forgetting to qualify her and see if she’s truly compatible with you.
Kolline is…….. ………. Kolline is much more than a coach, she has guided me through one of the darkest periods of my life. Losing the person you love is hard, but trying to mend the relationship is a whole other demon that most men are not equipped to handle. After my break up, I created
