The worst red flag.. In dating.. Is that everyone goes on dates to look for red flags. You know why? Because it means.. They are not in the PRESENT moment To enjoy the date. They are looking in the rear view mirror of Their past relationships That they fail To live in the present moment […]
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Who are you? Have you looked at yourself in the mirror this morning? Who are you? Let me tell you. You attract who you are. You are who you BELIEVE you are. You become who you BELIEVE you can be. It is very simple. As long as you override the cultural, societal, gender, familial conditionings
“You did what?” If there is a rule in love…. The only rule in love.. Should be… Everyone has their right to freedom. Why do I need to say this? I recently heard from a new girlfriend of mine of what she did. I am helping her to recover from her horrific breakup. Her ex….
You….. Finally… Yes… I meant Finally… You finally have the treasure map to locate the treasure that everyone’s fighting about.. You climb the mountains. You dive into deep seas. You seek people’s advice on your journey to find the treasure. Only if…. You can hold them in your hands to get the wealth you’ve been
My coach asked me to talk to a woman who is going through a horrific breakup. I don’t coach women. Only men. She signed up for love coaching with my coach but she resists to start the process. She reminded me of the “old” me. I tried to explain to her the steps I took.
“No! No! No!” Hard to admit but…. My oldest daughter, 7 years old, at the time screamed- “No! No! No!” As she woke up in the middle of the night hearing her parents fighting. My only- My only regret… In this life….. Was…. When my marriage became toxic.. And somewhat violent… But that night…. I
Okay, Who is my celebrity crush? Gerard Butler. Hmm… He’s so maturely masculine and handsome. So I met a man online that reminded me of Gerard Butler. In our first FaceTime- He shared, “I am very successful!” “Okay, what do you mean?” I asked. “I run a 30 million dollar company!” “Great! Teach me how!”
Catch me if you can, I meant literally. What do you think would happen when you chase a butterfly or a puppy? Think about it. The more you chase, the more it will elude you! How does this concept apply in love? Men oftentimes believe that they need to chase women. The more they chase,
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Your external world is a mirror and the reflection of your inner world. What does this mean? It means your inner beliefs have manifested the reality of your current life. In order to change your external reality, you ought to change your mindset and current beliefs. Clients usually say to me- “Kolline, I will always
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Your dating profile is your “resume” in dating. Majority of the men make no effort in making it presentable. Why? I don’t know. How do I know? Because I am also looking for my “purpose mate” (soul mate) as I was divorced a year ago. This is not only my profession. This is also part
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