Match of My Dreams

Communication

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“She betrayed me!”

She betrayed me! My friend, Nathan, contacted me. “What do I do?” He said. “What happened?” I asked. Nathan just found out his wife betrayed him with multiple men. Who live on the same street. Nathan is an engineer in his mid 40s. He’s been working in his office daily in pandemic. His wife is […]

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“Who am I?”

Who are you? Have you looked at yourself in the mirror this morning? Who are you? Let me tell you. You attract who you are. You are who you BELIEVE you are. You become who you BELIEVE you can be. It is very simple. As long as you override the cultural, societal, gender, familial conditionings

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“You did what?”

“You did what?” If there is a rule in love…. The only rule in love.. Should be… Everyone has their right to freedom. Why do I need to say this? I recently heard from a new girlfriend of mine of what she did. I am helping her to recover from her horrific breakup. Her ex….

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“You…..”

You….. Finally… Yes… I meant Finally… You finally have the treasure map to locate the treasure that everyone’s fighting about.. You climb the mountains. You dive into deep seas. You seek people’s advice on your journey to find the treasure. Only if…. You can hold them in your hands to get the wealth you’ve been

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“Say What?!”

My coach asked me to talk to a woman who is going through a horrific breakup. I don’t coach women. Only men. She signed up for love coaching with my coach but she resists to start the process. She reminded me of the “old” me. I tried to explain to her the steps I took.

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“No! No! No!”

“No! No! No!” Hard to admit but…. My oldest daughter, 7 years old, at the time screamed- “No! No! No!” As she woke up in the middle of the night hearing her parents fighting. My only- My only regret… In this life….. Was…. When my marriage became toxic.. And somewhat violent… But that night…. I

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“Hey,it’s me.”

Okay, Who is my celebrity crush? Gerard Butler. Hmm… He’s so maturely masculine and handsome. So I met a man online that reminded me of Gerard Butler. In our first FaceTime- He shared, “I am very successful!” “Okay, what do you mean?” I asked. “I run a 30 million dollar company!” “Great! Teach me how!”

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“Let me out!”

Let me out! Yes, you are running in a maze. How did you get there? A miserable life you live in.. No matter where you go where you run to- You realized you are running in circles. You can’t come out. “Where am I?” You may ask. You are in a maze YOU put yourself

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“No more tears!”

Yes! No more tears! How did I survive a narcissistic relationship? It took one decision of CHOOSING myself first. I meant it was for my survival. I had to make that decision or I would’ve ended my life and left my girls irresponsibly. It took so much of my inner strength to bypass the bread-crumbing,

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