Match of My Dreams

Communication

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“Drip. Drop.”

Drip. Drop. What is that sound? I can’t sleep. I can’t focus. What is that sound? I keep hearing. I get up from my bed. Every night. Walking like a zombie. Looking for that sound. Who is making that annoying noise? For hours… For days… I numb myself… What’s wrong with me? I feel empty.

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“She’s drowning…”

She’s drowning… Have you ever experienced the pain of seeing someone you love hurt themselves? Do you know how painful that is? That you want to scream at the top of your lungs hoping somehow that the pain will stop… That.. Your heart will stop bleeding.. That.. You can freeze time.. That… Your love for

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“R.I.P.”

R.I.P. Yes, the hardest thing in life may just be.. Not getting the closure you think you deserve. Certainly, my clients struggle with this at times. And sometimes it’s hard for them to walk away from the relationships that ended abruptly. No one deserves to be ghosted. No one deserves to be blocked. No one

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“Do me!”

Do me! Oh Yeah! Oops! I meant… Please don’t. I didn’t mean literally or intimately. I meant… Don’t make the biggest mistake in life- By- Mirroring others. People pleasing others. Because it all seems- Too good to be true. People can feel what you feel within yourself. People can smell inauthenticity from a mile away.

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“You can have him!”

You can have him! Yes! That decision changed my life. I’ve reached the point of no return. Backtrack 3 years ago. During my winter vacation with my two girls in Vancouver, Canada. I didn’t want to go as my heart was bleeding from being abandoned for the 3rd time by my narcissistic ex husband. I

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“I cheated.”

I cheated. I cheated. Tom, one of my clients, in his mid 50s is having a hard time grieving the death of his late wife. It’s his wife’s anniversary this month. He went from happily online dating to feeling depressed recently. He came to me two months ago with the goal of finding new love.

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