Are you addicted? Yes! Are you running on auto-pilot in dating? Are you addicted to online dating apps? Or are you simply… Swiping left for NOand swiping right for YES! Day after day… In this digital world, it is so easy to get addicted and run on an auto-pilot in dating. Do you feel you […]
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I was lost……. Backtrack 2.5 years ago…… I saw an ad on Facebook from “Happiness In Love” coaching. I scheduled a clarity call with Coach Xiaoli. I was lost in life as I decided to end my 14 year narcissistic marriage. I cried the minute I got on the call. I said, “Can you please help
Backtrack 3 years ago….. As I sat on the hardwood floor of my dream home… How did I get here? How did my marriage come to an end? I still remember.. On our wedding day, “he” was so happy to marry me that he teared up as he said his vows to me. At that
Backtrack a year & half ago, before I became a love coach. It was shocking to me when I got into online dating, many men were just looking for casual hookups. It didn’t really matter what they “claimed“ they were looking for on their dating profiles. They wanted intimacy even before dating exclusively. One of
Dating is like a war zone. You don’t even know how you died or why you have been eliminated. You get rejected. You get ghosted. You get blocked. You think you are being nice. You think you are doing everything right. You think you say all the things they want to hear. You spend so
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Have you ever felt this way? I will be happy when….. I get married. I am divorced. I have no fear. I feel validated. I sign this client. I buy my new car. I get this new job. Everyone likes me. My kids are happy. I get my promotion. I am in a toned body.
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My little brother passed away when he was 9, on the last day of school before Xmas, on his way home. He was on his bike making the last turn before he would’ve made it home. For 32 years, I blamed myself for not being there for him that day. For that he was there
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Backtrack over a year ago, before I became a love coach. My first online date after my divorce was supposedly with an Asian man, aged 50, widower, etc. I agreed to a dinner date. I arrived early or he was late, I don’t quite remember. As I got seated in the restaurant, an old man,
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The first man who hung up on me. The purpose of an enrollment call is to ensure we are a good fit for coach/client relationship. It happened last year when I was on an enrollment call. The minute after I finished introducing myself and briefly explained the agenda & intention for the call, the man
Everyone faces rejection at times. The fact that I am a love coach doesn’t mean that I don’t experience rejection in dating. I started online dating over one year ago. The only way to combat rejection is to ensure you are self-aligned in the process. Remember your end goal and what the deal breakers are
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